We all at one point or another wish to be accepted, we wish to have that special person we have been interested in for quite some time, give us the so called time of day. This article will put forward some suggestions and tips to get that guy.
1) Be yourself – to get a guy to like you, it is important that you stay clear from manipulation strategies. While this technique may work for some it will not work for others, and therefore it’s imperative that you strive to be as authentic as possible , after all, you will want him to be around for a very long time.
2) Find out what he likes and make it happen: this is pretty straightforward. Resist the urge to be self centered and focus on him for a change. Find out as much as possible about his likes and ensure that you do not do anything that would be opposed to them. Additionally, it is important to ascertain his dislikes and steer clear of them.
3) Speak highly of him, especially when around others: never and I repeat, never speak ill of him, especially when you are in the presence of others. It is important that you feed his ego, not in a narcissistic way but in a way that makes him feel comfortable being around you. Speak well of him at all times and you’ll find that you’ve gained a true friend.
4) Encourage him: do not try and outshine him. instead, it is important that you seek to be as humble as possible which tends to bring out the hero instinct in men. If he does something well, be sure to make a big deal about it. Additionally, if he happens to do something poorly, instead of creating a scene, call him aside and quietly reveal to him the err of his ways. He will not only be grateful but you would have also gained his respect.
5) Be confidential: be someone he can trust. If he tells you something in confidence, guard that information with your integrity.
6) Dress impeccably: pay attention to your mode of dress. Take care of your outward appearance and you may very well gain his admiration.
7) Bring something to the table educationally: be at a level where you can hold a discussion with him in certain issues. Communication is key to every relationship and if he cannot speak to you, chances are, he will be disinterested. If he is a car fanatic, find out as much as you can about these objects and if he is a sports enthusiast, research sports. There is so much that can be done in this regard and it is up to you to take the step forward.
In closing, there is so much that can be done to get a guy. Some of these have been listed above and it is hoped that you will at least consider some of them. All the very best to you.